I’m not going to do much explaining here. I think anyone who might benefit from these will benefit from them as they stand.
♦ Forgiving a person does not make that person safe.
♦ Healing is not a process by which I realize all things are equal.
♦ The goal of healing is not to conclude that everything is equally benign.
♦ As someone else has said, “The purpose of an open mind is to close on something.” In the case of emotional boundaries, sometimes it’s more important to make a decision rather than to exhaust all possible grounds and evidence for making that decision. Goodness knows, there’s no moral relativism in saying, “That movement or person or idea or activity is bad for me.” Others in my social circle might not see things the same way, but I’m not living everyone’s life, just my own.