From The Washington Post:
It was so Washington, the way they met. She was on the dais at a panel discussion on media and politics, holding forth knowledgeably; he was in the audience, smitten. At the steakhouse dinner that followed, Jake Brewer got the courage to walk up to Mary Katharine Ham and give her the hopeful, ambiguous let’s get a drink sometime line.
Then he e-mailed her an invitation to a tech policy luncheon. She never replied.
Soon after, he was sitting at El Tamarindo in Adams Morgan with a friend, and she was beelining for their table. She greeted the mutual friend at his table — and only then turned to him with a friendly stare of non-recognition.
“Hi,” she told Jake. “I’m Mary Katharine Ham.”
It was all so very Washington, for a couple who would become anything but: a conservative pundit married to an Obama White House staffer.
When Jake died Sept. 19 — after he collided with a car during a cancer charity bike ride in Mount Airy, Md. — the 34-year-old technology advocate was mourned on both MSNBC and Fox. His boss, President Obama, released a statement: Jake was proof, he said, that this generation is “capable of making a difference.”
Read the rest of this heartbreaking yet inspiring story.