So to put it all in a nutshell, I can’t put it in a nutshell.
-Colin Foote Burch
Don’t give your children your attempts to follow parenting guidelines, rules, or principles. Give them the best of who you are.
"Referee won't blow the whistle / God is good but will he listen?" -- U2
"Kierkegaard was by far the most profound thinker of the[nineteenth] century. Kierkegaard was a saint." - Ludwig Wittgenstein, to his friend Maurice Drury.
Read Wittgenstein and Kierkegaard: Religion, Individuality, and Philosophical Method by Charles L. Creegan free online.